I just observed greatness, now what?
- jgrom6
- 13 hours ago
- 2 min read
I’ve been amazed countless times in my life by incredible performances. A few that come to mind:
Vartan Manoogian, professor of violin at the University of Wisconsin–Madison School of Music, performed with us at a UW Band Spring Concert. I remember being awestruck by the speed, precision, and emotion he demonstrated on the violin.
Jerry Seinfeld performing stand-up in Milwaukee. My friend Nate got the tickets, and I still remember a segment about men not understanding what women want. A guy in the balcony yelled out in excitement, and without hesitation Jerry responded, “Well, I know one thing for sure; they don’t want you to yell out in a public place like that guy did.” The timing and wit were remarkable.
PGA and LPGA professionals who play at a level that I can only replicate for maybe a hole or two. I’ve attended many tournaments and even followed along with my friend, Andy, who caddied on the LPGA Tour for years. The power, precision and ease in professionals swing and amazing ability to read putts…I’m envious! On TV, I still remember watching Tiger Woods win the Masters in 1997 and seeing what true mastery looks like.
Less of a performance and more of a display of expertise, I get this feeling every time I go salmon fishing with my father-in-law, Howard. He manages Dipsey divers, copper line, planer boards, and downriggers with a confidence that only comes from years of experience.
Our kids recently had a piano recital where one of the final performances featured four pianists, including our daughter, playing together in a piece called A Little Bit of Bach. I’m still amazed by how they coordinated so seamlessly.
Even last week, I watched a leader demonstrate a skillful conversation through a role play, and the entire audience seemed to be in awe.
Originally, the plan was to have the group immediately practice the conversation themselves. Instead, I changed course and asked everyone to reflect on what they had just observed and identify what he did exceptionally well.
The idea was simple: by carefully observing excellence and breaking it into smaller pieces, people can build skill one element at a time before adding complexity.
So my recommendation is this: celebrate excellence. Cheer as loudly as you can (when appropriate). But then take the next step, reflect on what you saw and heard. Ask yourself what made it exceptional, and identify one or two small behaviors you can practice and replicate.
Sometimes the fastest way to improve isn’t trying to perform like the expert. It’s learning to see what the expert is actually doing.
Learn In The Flow Of Life
Jason
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